We all went to Church today, and things seem back to how they were before the Saturday night episode the week before last. It just proved to me just how volatile my marriage is. There is nothing more important than getting counseling. Without it, it will be a short time before the next flare-up. I’m confident of that. You see, Shu Mei is okay with how things are, again like before. But, I am not. We need family therapy, desperately.